Set the height first
- A pillow or folded blanket under her hips tilts the pelvis and shortens the distance you have to guess
- Her chest lower and hips higher usually gives a better angle than both of you fully upright
- If you are much taller, kneel on the floor with her at the edge of the bed instead of both kneeling on a soft mattress
Start slower than you think
Rear entry changes the angle of the vaginal canal. What felt fine face-to-face can feel sudden from behind. First strokes should be shallow. Ask whether she wants deeper, not whether it “looks hot.”
Use your hands for her, not as a handle
A hand on her hip or lower back steadies both of you. Avoid leaning your weight onto her neck. The other hand can reach around for clitoral contact — doggy rarely finishes her without that.
When it hurts instead of feeling deep
Back off depth, add lube, and change the tilt of her hips. Pain is not a sign you found the right spot. If she wants G-spot pressure, a slight downward angle toward her belly (from her orientation) plus clitoral contact is more useful than maximum depth. The squirting guide covers that front-wall pressure in more detail.
